The A.D. (After Dave) Years

Dave and I got married 12 years ago today. We kept it simple and got married as close to our dating anniversary as possible. So on Wednesday, we will have been together 19 years.

Nineteen years sounds like a long time to me. It’s exactly half my life. And it’s gone by at an alarming speed.

In addition to random chance, there were three possible ways I could have met Dave. I guess there was no escaping him.

I told him I loved him the first time we met. He lived with some friends of mine his senior year and I met him at a party. I felt giddy and decided to flirt by telling all the guys I loved them. I told everyone I loved them and I’d never said that to another man before. I inserted each person’s name so I wasn’t lying. I’ve always been big on the truth. Obnoxious, sure. Liar, no.

Thank god my friend Dave had a nickname everyone used, so when I met the Dave I was able to truthfully say, “I love you, Dave, and I’ve never said that to another man before.” That got his attention.

So we’ve just established that I loved him right away (see this post for the plethora of reasons I love him) and luckily he was smitten with me too. We only had about seven months to build something before we’d live in different cities for six years. Those six long-distance years were the only ones that felt like they passed slowly to me.

Somehow our relationship lasted even as the long-distance relationships of all my friends did not. I’m still not sure I know why.

We like each other. Maybe it’s just as simple as that.

I often find it hard to think of things to say to people, depending on my mood, even close friends and family. It’s funny, I can go out with friends and not say very much, but I always come home to Dave and chatter without taking a breath for 20 minutes. He is my home.

I can pinpoint the first moment I thought Dave was the one for me. We’d only been dating for about a month and he took me in his arms for a goodbye hug after a date. We could not extract ourselves and we stood with our arms wrapped around each other for a really long time. I felt such warmth and peace and comfort and love. I felt I could have stayed that way forever. I still do.

Now that I’ve learned how to create a video from pictures (see Chuck’s birthday video and Dave’s birthday video), I had to make an anniversary video too. Don’t worry, I’m running out of occasions/unused pictures.

Happy Anniversary!

Together 19 years (exactly half of my life) Married 12 years music: “Love Song” by the Ocean Blue

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4 Responses to “The A.D. (After Dave) Years”

  1. Tracy
    Monday, October 10, 2011 at 9:54 pm #

    That’s really sweet!

  2. By Word Of Mouth Musings
    Wednesday, October 12, 2011 at 9:02 am #

    True love, you just can’t fight it no matter how many I love you’s to other men 😉

  3. Jennifer
    Friday, January 24, 2014 at 8:58 pm #

    I don’t think I’ve ever seen you so happy Tracy.

    • Tracy @LogyExpress
      Friday, February 14, 2014 at 2:49 pm #

      Hi Jen! You still reading through the archives?!? I have only written 3 posts in the past year–so you might catch up soon! I’ve been focusing more on ice cream making lately.

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